Anna June got a second back-to-school sundae last night. Why? Because her dad missed the first one. It was my fault, yet somehow I got a second sundae as well.
Somewhere, there is a mom who had everything ready for the first day of school. She had new uniforms bought and ironed. She had groceries bought with healthy snacks prepped and in the lunch bags the night before. She had a dinner menu planned and things in the crockpot ready when she got home. She had kids who slept well and long as they dreamed of future successes. As much as I envision this person, I don't actually know her.
I don't have my act together, but maybe that's because this is not an act. AJ is a real, human kid who has a lot of varied needs, just like her parents.
Fortunately, I think he school year is going to go great. She likes her teacher and has declared that first grade is fun - she could not wait to go back today. At the same time, she was a little overwhelmed, and either never wanted to go back, or go back immediately. It's hard to process these feelings.
Mostly, she let them out by jumping her way through the grocery store and hanging on me to the point where I had to tell her to quit so I could walk. We did buy some healthy snacks, including fruit, which I did wash, cut up, and put in snack size baggies. She did get her (old) uniform ready for the next day. We did come up with a plan for dinner for some of the nights this week. We want the year to go smoothly, after all.
I'll keep looking for that perfect mom. But in the meantime, I will know that I'm doing alright if AJ is relatively healthy and happy. She's learning and likes going to school - she didn't even want me to walk her to the classroom.
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